The Integrative Psychotherapist & Life Coach
I support people who overthink, over-give, and overdo, to experience a quieter mind, more connected relationships, and a calmer nervous system.
Those who look fine, but don't actually feel fine.
Outwardly they are functioning, capable, and doing well, but inside they regularly feel anxious, stressed, overwhelmed, disconnected, permanently "on" or quietly exhausted.
Not struggling enough to be noticed, but not exactly fine either.
I call this The Secret Struggle™
#RewriteYourReality
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You don’t look like you’re struggling. You're not in crisis. Your emotional state doesn't feel fixed.
You show up, work hard, doing all of "the things".
You often tell yourself things aren't "that bad".
And because of that, you feel like you should be okay.
But at times everything is just too much and you wonder if anyone else feels this way too.
You regularly find yourself stuck in a cycle of anxiety, stress and overwhelm which can look like:
Over-functioning, performing and achieving at work
Over-giving in your relationships
Perfectionism, people pleasing and searching for approval
Imposter syndrome, self-doubt and constant comparison
Feeling like you're not "enough" and at times feeling "too much"
Always on the go and unable to rest
Saying or doing the 'right' thing
Overthinking what has happened or what could happen
Filtering yourself and hiding how you really feel
Finding it uncomfortable to receive or ask for support, because you should be okay
These are the patterns that create an outer identity of achievement, success and competence... all whilst a quiet inner conflict starts to build that you can feel, but can't always name. Your inner world doesn't feel like it matches your outer world and trying to contain it all can feel relentless.
This is The Secret Struggle™.
Here we acknowledge that your emotional state isn't fixed. You're not either "coping" or "in crisis". How you feel is something that shifts and changes depending on what you're navigating.
I'm here to help you remember how life felt beyond perfectionism, productivity and performance.
About me
The Integrative Psychotherpist & Life Transformation Coach
Becky is accredited and registered with over 15 years of clinical experience working in the psychology field, in both the public and private sector. This includes working 1:1 with clients in Young Offenders Institutes, Drug & Alcohol Services, Social Care, Private Practice and delivering consultation and training to other professionals.
Becky brings her own lived experience as a professional, a mother, a wife and a daughter, to create a refreshingly human, compassionate, and safe space for clients. Her practice is underpinned by psychology, neuroscience, coaching and energetics; combining many tools, teachings and perspectives depending on what the client needs.
Becky is known for supporting clients to do deep emotional healing work whilst also offering the tools, accountability and confidence to create sustainable change in your inner and outer world. Becky isn't just focussed on you feeling better but actually empowering you to be who you really are by supporting and at times challenging you to explore and deepen your understanding of yourself, your experiences and the world around you. It's no longer about trying harder, it’s about releasing the protective patterns, so that you can become more of who you really are.
My Signature Approach...
Recognise, Release, Realign
You don’t need “fixing” or changing. You don't need a new routine or simple strategy.
You need to really understand your inner world.
This enables you to Recognise your struggles and understand why they exist; Release the the thoughts, feelings, limiting beliefs and self-protective patterns that are exhausting you and; Realign your choices, decisions and actions with who you really are.
Most high-functioning people with hidden struggles have built their inner world to cope, because they don't feel safe to be themselves.
You perform and protect, because feeling, expressing and simply being never felt safe.
You function, but rarely feel good or genuine contentment.
You push through, because showing up as you are hasn’t always felt possible.
This isn’t because something is wrong with you.
It’s because you learned who you needed to be in order to feel 'good enough'.
And this is where change can happen.
This is where Rewriting Your Reality™ begins.
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"Becky’s support has been invaluable during a really difficult time. She’s able to listen and hold everything whilst giving me the confidence to believe in myself and trust my own instincts."
"Working with Becky has been a truly valuable experience. From the very beginning, she was incredibly easy to connect with—refreshingly human, calm, and deeply empathic. I always felt supported and never judged, which created a safe and open space for reflection and growth. Becky clearly drew on both her professional expertise and personal experiences to offer thoughtful, high-quality therapy that felt both grounded and insightful."
"Our conversations were rich and engaging, blending theory with practical relevance in a way that really resonated with me. I’ve come away with a greater sense of self-acceptance, a stronger ability to pause before reacting, and a deeper connection to my body and emotions. I genuinely enjoyed our sessions and always looked forward to them."